If you want to date a stripper you probably know by now that most strippers don’t date customers. Most strippers have a rule against dating guys that come into the club for a few reasons, the biggest of which is that most guys that visit strip clubs typically aren’t very classy and they can often be downright rude.
But if you do still want to date a stripper here is how you can get her to break that rule and begin what might be a very interesting and mutually fulfilling relationship.
You Don’t Want to Date Her – Have you already tried asking her out on a date and gotten shot down by the long standing and often quoted stripper rule about not dating customers? That’s fine. Don’t give up and continue to work in the direction of winning her over by letting her know that you are embarrassed by the fact that you asked her out and that you are glad that you can just be friends. Let her think that you don’t want to date her riverside Strippers.
Continue to visit her at the club and get to know her but keep your visits short so you don’t come off like a stalker. Spend your time at the bar or off to the side if there isn’t a bar at the club, but make a point of never accepting lap dances from other strippers. Be polite and thank the other dancers but try not to fall into the category of being just one of the regular customers. Get to know all the girls but make sure that the stripper that you are hoping to date knows that she is special. Spend time getting to know her.
When To Visit The Club – Plan your visits to the club when it isn’t very busy. If you visit the strip club when it is busy not only won’t she be able to spend much time talking with you but it is a turn off to other guys if they see a stripper with one guy. They might assume that you are her girlfriend and that would be bad for business.
Instead visit early when she begins her shift and she might have some time to talk. Look her in the eye and try to avoid checking her out. Talk to her as if she was any other woman that you were interested in dating and instead of imagining her with her clothes off you are going to have to imagine her with her clothes ON! Even five minutes of meaningful conversation will make an impression on her.
When it begins to get busy finish your drink and make sure to say goodbye. Let her know that you enjoyed talking with her and that you’ll be back another time when it isn’t so busy. If you can’t get a moment alone with her then a simple smile and a wave will let her know that you’re leaving.
With a little persistence and well meaning intentions it is absolutely possible to get her to break the rule that most strippers have about dating customers. Many strippers have actually met their boyfriends and husbands at work and for the right guy she will bend if not break that rule if you are persistent and play your cards right.